Hi #GYNEGirls and #Preggos!

You know me (and I know you), so there’s no need for introductions. WE all, including MYSELF, need to sit down for this one! Ladies- you always ask me How BIG is TOOOOOO BIG? Pause! Now that I have your full attention, LOL! And I always say if it hurts, don’t do it, don’t do it, DON’!

I know some of the SIZE QUEENs out there love the friction of a big penis, BUT YOU need to be careful! Sometimes a larger penis may tear the vagina and cause bleeding. Not good! And then you have to have emergency surgery to fix your lady part! So embarrassing…a large penis can cause sex to be painful. Also, NOT GOOD! That defeats your purpose of having sex in the first place, right? The vagina CAN stretch, but try not to take advantage of that MEDICAL “T”-TIP! You need to use lubricants- Astroglide, etc… especially when the penis, dildo, or vibrator is larger. And yes, I said dildo and vibrator! Stop blushing!

You know by now that Dr. Drai is all about REAL TALK!

Tell your man, or woman, not to forget about FOREPLAY – the clitoris! AND the G-spot! By the way, I have a new medical “T” video dropping soon about the G-spot- you don’t want to miss finding that clip. You better GET YOUR LIFE! WINK!! Teaching point – Did you know the clitoris and penis are made out of the same tissue?! Different topic for a different day. Specifically for my #preggos, if you have something called a PREVIA- the afterbirth located at the cervix- just Google it, early labor, leaking fluid or vaginal bleeding, DON’T HAVE SEX AT ALL! Regardless of the size!! Let me be a little more specific, because we all know how you girls like to try my nerves; don’t use any dildos or vibrators either! Nothing in the vagina at all!

Make sure to tell your man that Dr. Drai says he isn’t poking the baby – no matter if he does have an ANACONDA. LOL! Lots of boyfriends, hubbies, and maintenance men before/now BDs (aka Baby Daddies) love to ask me about that! And Yes, that was a R-E-A-D! Like I said (again AND AGAIN), make sure the condom fits. If your man needs Magnum XL or SNUGGER Fit-Google that, make sure HE BUYS THEM! Catch that!

Safer sex is the only sex you should be having because you are one of Dr. Drai’s #GYNEGirls and #Preggos.

Remember, BIG is not always BETTER! Until next time!!

Until Next Time #GYNEGirls…



Dr. Draion M. Burch, DO (Dr. Drai) – a highly respected, board-certified Obstetrician and Gynecologist – is a nationally-recognized author, speaker, consultant, and go-to media expert on women’s health and transgender health issues. He travels the country to meet with women one-on-one and in groups to provide and instruct on healthcare. Although Dr. Drai may be requested to spread his medical expertise to all four corners of the U.S., he always makes time to genuinely help those in need. As a pragmatic physician who offers endless charisma, high energy, and a larger-than-life personality, his “bedside manner” makes it obvious why his patients have named Dr. Drai “America’s OBGYN.” Dr. Drai is the founder and chief medical advisor of, where he discusses actionable ideas and real-world strategies to help women take control of their health. As an openly gay gynecologist he has patients flocking to him and his website for not only his medical expertise, but because of the security they feel in the way he cares for, relates to, and teaches women about subjects ranging from embarrassing vaginal care to serious sexual assault. His mission: Real medical advice, simplified. Dr. Drai takes his unique brand to the camera on his YouTube channel to spill his popular “Medical T” (TIPS) helping his self-titled #Preggos, #GYNEGirls and #GENTs pursue a healthier life. Dr. Drai’s on-point advice on off-the-wall questions about sexual health issues has many calling him a “sexpert.” Dr. Drai earned his Doctorate of Osteopathic Medicine degree from The Ohio University and completed his internship and residency at Michigan State University.


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  • Stephanie

    Love It

  • Dom

    OMGOSHHH! This has happened to me, i ended up in the hospital b/c my man was wayyyy to big! i had emergency surgery and everything..vaginal laceration is no joke!!! ladies take heed!!!

    • Andrea Robinson

      Thank goodness you got medical attention in time!

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  • Andrea Robinson

    I think that it absolutely goes without saying that preggos should not be having sex if it hurts! But I get it — you have to say it anyway! We ladies can sometimes be a little too accommodating and sensitive to the man’s needs.

    That having been said, I would really be curious what you have to say about this. I once had a partner that was so huge that his penis could not go in all the way — only about half way or less. It was not only very long, but very big around also. I really believe that contrary to the old myth that “bigger is better,” this man was very nervous about causing pain and it probably detracted from his enjoyment quite a bit, although we never actually discussed it.

    In the movie, Kinsey, a doctor recommends doggie-style for this kind of problem. I was wondering if you have any suggestions or if you think this is the best way to approach supersize sex. (And thanks for the tip on lubrication.) From what I remember, we simply approached with caution and no pain was caused as a result. However, I did feel for a man who was so large that he had to spend his entire sex life worried about giving his partner pain.

    That was a long time ago, and I did not discuss this with any of my girlfriends or get any advice at the time. I have since experienced a position in which the man inserts his penis in between the two breasts and can have an orgasm that way. I think now that this could have been helpful to my previous partner.

    Thanks a lot for your candor and very practical advice! Great article and so very pertinent for any couple with this experience. 🙂

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